Fleshlight - Gay Site Review

DESCRIPTION:
Fleshlight is the ultimate jack off toy. Slide your cock into the silky smooth insert and you'll swear you're fucking a man's butt hole! It feels incredible. It's pure heaven!

REVIEWED:
November 6, 2007

COST:
Varies

GENRE:
Sex toys.

The Fleshlight is unbelievably hot and it's something that every man should experience at least once. But I have to say up front that I was skeptical when I saw the Fleshlights advertised around the Web. Was it a gimmick? Did it really feel as great as the ads claimed? It seems that I'm not alone because as I told my friends about my Fleshlight's arrival, I was asked over and over again, "Is it any good?" or "Does it really work?" Yes, yes, yes! It's really good and it really does work!

I ordered my Fleshlight online and I was absolutely amazed when, two days later, the Fedex man was standing at my door. (And he was hot, but that's another fantasy.) For the nervous among you, there's absolutely nothing to worry about in having this sex toy delivered to your home. The Fleshlight arrives in a plain box with nothing to indicate what's inside. I didn't even get a nasty little smile from the Fedex guy, he had no idea what he was holding in his hands.

I opened up the package and the Fleshlight was dead easy to assemble: just slide the insert into the tube and you're ready to go. But I had to put things aside because (a) it was the middle of the day and I had work to do, and (b) I didn't feel like having my partner walking in on me while I was test driving my new toy. So I waited.

When my partner took off for a night of billiards, I fired up the DVD player, grabbed my Fleshlight and some lube, and slipped off my underwear. To use the Fleshlight, your cock needs to be fairly hard, so you'll have to work up an erection the old fashioned way. When I was ready to go, I lubed up the Fleshlight hole and squirted some more lube inside the insertion tube. Then I slid my hard cock inside the Fleshlight. It felt incredible. I have to say that it felt just as good and real as a tight butt hole and I loved the sensation. I think, "Oh my God" escaped my lips. I pumped it up and down a few times, and within second, I realized this was going to be one of the shortest jack off sessions on record. Within about 20 seconds, I was ready to pop. And I did! Normally I'm not such a preemie, in fact, I can generally fuck my partner for a reasonable amount of time. But the Fleshlight felt so incredible smooth and silky on my cock that I just couldn't hold back.

I was a little disappointed at my speedy ending, but I looked at it as a challenge and an opportunity to become a better lover. Since my introduction to my Fleshlight, I've been practicing, and I've inadvertently discovered that it helps you practice your endurance. So instead of pumping until I cum, I'd pump a few times, and then, stop, then pump a few more, and stop. By repeating this I can last longer each time. Also, there's a screw cap on the bottom of the tube that helps you adjust the tension. When the screw cap is completely closed, the Fleshlight creates quite a drag on your cock during the back stroke. If you unscrew to cap a little, it'll allow air into the tube and reduce the drag, allowing you to last longer.

And as these things go, the more I taunt and tease my cock, the better the orgasm. And this is no secret to the Fleshlight guys because they've even built a special toy called Endurance Jack. It's equipped with the stamina insert with extra large bumps and a tight canal, and while you won't be able to last long, it'll help you drag things out more and more each time. So I'm looking forward to many more practice sessions over the coming weeks, and in the end, I'm sure my partner will approve as I'll be lasting even longer in our own fuck sessions.

The Fleshlight site itself is dead easy to navigate. And that Design Your Own section is a real Godsend. I loved that I could see all of my selections as I made them. A simple click changes my options and I can see the new Fleshlight I'm designing. And the order form itself was simple, and they didn't try to sell me a bunch of stuff I didn't want or need. But they do offer to send e-mail or snail mail instructions and tips, if you want them. If you don't, you simply opt out of the mailing and you're all set.

I really loved that when ordering, you can design your own Fleshlight. You select the orifice: mouth, ass, or generic; then you select the desired sensation – Original, Wonder Wave, Speed Bump, Ultra Tight, Super Ribbed, and Super Tight (and there are pictures to help you along), and finally, you select the colour of your tube (black, white, or silver). As you make the various selections, the Fleshlight on the side of the page changes, so you see immediately what you're ordering. And if you don't want to be bothered with all the options, you can just order the Classic Fleshlight, which comes with a two ounce bottle of Gun Oil.

For the more adventurous of you, the Fleshlight website also carries a number of other toys, like Mr. Limpy. It's a realistic limp penis that feels just like the real thing, and it's made from the same Real Feel Superskin™ material that the Fleshlight is made from. What you'll do with it is up to you and your imagination.

If you want to try different openings and inserts, you can also buy an insertion multi-pack with the mouth / wonderwave insert, the butt / super ribbed insert and the closet / speed bump insert. (You'll still need a tube.) And with four different inserts to choose from (the tube itself comes with an insert) will give you a variety of sensations and experiences. And the Fleshlight also sells lube, and I highly recommend the Gun Oil, it felt incredible on my cock.

The Fleshlight site has a great frequently asked questions section that will help you decide what is best for me. I was a bit confused when ordering about which option would be best for me. I don't have the biggest cock in the world – I'm comfortably average – and I didn't want to pick an insert that was too loose on my cock. I ended up selecting the ultra tight option, and it felt great, but the online guide is definitely worth reading through to help you make your decision.

You will need to keep your Fleshlight lubed up really well. The Real Feel Superskin™ will wear if you don't use enough lube. But as long as you use lots of water soluble lube, you'll be fine. And just a hint, but the more lube that you use, the better it feels. I think the only thing that I'd suggest to the site is that they put some kind of a cock size banner right up front on the main page. They do include lots of information about selecting the right size in their frequently asked questions section, but it's a text link on the navigation bar, and I didn't see it right away. A graphic banner that said, "How Big is Your Cock? Which Fleshlight is Right for You?" would probably help a lot of surfers ease some anxiety and help the selection process.

Fleshlight is a great product. I'm tempted to order ten of them just so I have a supply in case they ever stop making them. But with over 900,000 Fleshlights sold, it doesn't look like these guys are going anywhere. In fact, they've got a new product coming soon called "Man in a Can" which is designed specifically for small-endowed men. I'm a 100% sure that you're going to love playing with a Fleshlight. I've bought a lot of sex toys that were disappointing or didn't live up to their advertising claims, but the Fleshlight definitely feels like you've got a hot mouth or a tight, juicy butt wrapped around your cock. My toy chest will be permanently stocked with a selection of Fleshlights, and when my partner is off playing billiards, I'll be practicing and practicing.

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